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runiclaw ([personal profile] runiclaw) wrote2010-01-14 10:03 pm

as the cycle ends.

well today my ex changed her status to in a relationship. i can only hope she has found someone who will treat her well, she deserves that much. i am not sadden by this but o be honest i was more then alittle annoyed to find out she had been dating for a few weeks at least and everyone around me knew it. i would of far rather learned this fact from friends then facebook.

[identity profile] gothicarmywife.livejournal.com 2010-01-15 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
i have had similar situations happen to me...and im sorry you had to go through this.

[identity profile] runiclaw.livejournal.com 2010-01-15 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
i am Glad she has found happiness and now i can move on.

statuses...

[identity profile] mistletoeelf.livejournal.com 2010-01-15 04:56 am (UTC)(link)
sometimes, we are unthinking and not trying to actually be hurtful, I can say.
I can't speak to/about your lady, however...
I got messages back from step-kids who saw "engaged" on one site or another, where I didn't even realize we were already tied together.
I wasn't trying to hurt feelings, only to share excitement.

still - consider yourself hugged.

Re: statuses...

[identity profile] runiclaw.livejournal.com 2010-01-15 02:27 pm (UTC)(link)
in this case its was not so much that they where being hurtful, more as they thought they where sheltering me. this is not high school (and i did not act this way then) i am not going to challenge him to a fight screaming "Shes mine"
lol, if anything i will buy him a drink and Honestly congratulate him on attracting the attention of a Wonderful lady and with them both the utmost of happiness.
there is far too much hate and anger and jealousy in the world. i am happy for anyone who can find someone to hold onto and make a life with. finding someone who Loves you is a rare and amazing thing.

[identity profile] blackpage.livejournal.com 2010-01-15 02:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it can be very conflicting some times. I was very happy for my last girlfriend because she was able to go back to her husband in Canada. I was sad though because she left.