in this case its was not so much that they where being hurtful, more as they thought they where sheltering me. this is not high school (and i did not act this way then) i am not going to challenge him to a fight screaming "Shes mine"
lol, if anything i will buy him a drink and Honestly congratulate him on attracting the attention of a Wonderful lady and with them both the utmost of happiness.
there is far too much hate and anger and jealousy in the world. i am happy for anyone who can find someone to hold onto and make a life with. finding someone who Loves you is a rare and amazing thing.